Yes Sara, my boys are very smart. I didn't put in the whole comment S16 made to me when I told him about OM returning to our area in a couple years. He said "maybe I should tell mom AGAIN that if I ever find him around my mom I will freakin kill him".
And I know that song well. I use it all the time in a different situation. A great wildlife area I used to visit was turned into a park with lots of paved parking lots etc. That song comes to mind everytime I go by the place.
And I agree. I pretty much know S16 and I are moving, with or without her. I told both the boys that maybe it was the best thing. I'm sure if we separated she'd be going to see OM the first weekend, even if he's done with her (which I'm pretty sure he is). Maybe the reality of the situation will wake her up. If not, at least I've removed myself and the boys from her destructive influence. If she wants back in, it will be on my terms. If not, the boys and I can get on with our lives.
Thanks for commenting.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.