Our purpose here is SINGULAR. To save marriages. Please remember that.
sg
Mmm; I understand that this is Divorce Busters and we are here to save our marriages .. however, if you see someone losing themselves to save their marriage I don’t think it is wrong to point that out.
I personally would rather hear someone tell me what they felt in their heart not what they thought they should just because it fits in with the ethos of the website.
Nutty
Hi Nutty,
I appreciate your post and sentiment.
You can get all the folks who know you in real life, all your best friends and family can tell you you are in a downward spiral, etc.
I think the best approach would be instead of saying, hey Nutty, it isn't working.....your H/W is a jerk, I think you should leave... to say....."Nutty, I can see you are miserable, and it makes me sad"...... Tell what you see, tell how you feel and stop at that point if you can't offer to help brainstorm other solutions.
Many folks who give up, years later, wish they hadn't.
I personally wish with all my heart I had these tools. I would have been more equipped for my decisions.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
