Hi (((((Stella)))))

I find some positives in your sitch.

1. H is honest without you pulling the truth out of him
2. You are a sane, healthy woman and the spider is totally nuts (bonus for you)
3. H is contacting your Mother (if he didn't want ties to you why talk to your Mom?)
4. he wants out from the web

I hope you can hang on for 2 months. I think it's best to request no contact when you go home. That way you'll be able to "see" if its true. Before you go it makes no sense because he can say whatever and then do whatever.

Relax and take some deep breaths


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road