Wife is considering filing - Need Help

[LosingSunshine]

Thx again GFI!
I don't have much time this am as I need to take the kids to mass but wanted to jot down some quick thoughts.

Need to write more on pc less on blackberry.

Feelings that W feels won't change...intimacy towards me...feelings towards my mother.

Needs are happiness and to be independent as she has been too dependent on me due to my job relos etc...needs a career not just a job. Needs a life and to find who she is.

She loves and cares for me and likes my involvement with kids...makes her happy.

She is still acting as if we are not S. Doing my laundry this am without me asking. Just did it. Had her friend being me my type of coffee yesterday am. Thanked me for letting her friend stay the day and evening at the house with her. Popped into my room last night to let me know my mom had called.

She bought too bad to stay too good to leave. Hasn't started reading but will soon.