well that was a messed up convo. She really doesn't get it. Wants to believe what she wants to believe. Im glad your S spoke up, that's great, what I don't understand is that she is not willing to help her own son get to a place where he is happy. For your S to say that he is willing to go without her says ALOT.
As a mother of two boys, I would be heartbroken if they weren't happy, and would do anything to change that. Why can't she just set her wants aside for a change? These Spouses are so self centered I just can't stand it.
You sound like your in a different place then you were. Your really detaching, and are very strong. I'm sure your son sees that, and that's great.
I hope she will wake up and see the light... for all of your sakes.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
