Married 28 yrs- bomb last May-EA with OW-seperated 1 yr -kept in touch-"Dont know what I want etc....." Some counselling-wouldnt open up.Regular contact at my insistence then 5 weeks silence from us both. Sent text as must decide divorce or not.He said he felt so bad about us he didnt know how to make contact. My gut feel is he is missing me and is now really confused.Dont want him back out of guilt how do I deal with this sitch?