S19 TM'd me later and asked me if S16 was pulling his chain about maybe moving and I told him no, he was serious. I told him the jist of the story and he said to me "maybe you, S16 and I should just move home and get on with our lives without her".
H4U, maybe you should talk to an atty to find out what the legal ramnifications of this are? I wouldn't want you to do anything that might screw up your case, but I think this may be your next play, I really do.
She is lost. It's time to let her feel what it feels like to be let go.