They call me Dr LOve.... I just wanted to say hey.... I have been at this now for over a year. Most of you already know my story so I will not go into detail. But about a year ago I found pictures of my W with another man on our computer. I was devastated. I did all the wrong things. I begged her to give me another chance. (Ya right like I did something wrong). I cried, I moped around. Wife at that time treated me like dirt. I became really depressed. But with the help of my friends here. (Back then we were allowed to exchange-mails) I over came it. I started to GAL... Fast forward my W recently agreed to go to retro JULY 11TH is the day.... I can honestly say I did not give up. I bent over backwards to keep things in control. This will be the make it or break it time though. I guess the hard part... getting your spouse to go... is done. I am scared. I don't know what to expect. I don't know if I still want to be married. In the beginning this retro thing was to help my W see the light. But now I need it. I need to find out if there is any future with my wife. I am no longer willing to live as roommates... I just wanted to let everyone know that sometimes the wait may be worth it. It has been over a year since we lived as husband and wife. In 13 more days I will find out if the wait was worth it...
Take care everyone
Do Love (husband)
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I wish you the best. I have hope that someday, but for now the law will take it's course and unless H gets a visit from God himself, we will be divorced by the day you hope to find your wife. Perhaps this is the way supposed to be...we go through all of this to find out what are M's are really all about. This is our wake up call. Again best wishes.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Hey, just stopping by after our exchange on "that other site". My best to you at Retro. Hopefully it will be a breakthrough, though don't be disappointed if it is just another step along the way.
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Found you! I know your wait will be worth it.....just hope you and your wife know that too!! Hope you'll have a positive outlook at the start of Retro! Just the fact that you are going means so much!!!
Last night was the start of the Retro weekend here. We had 28 couples from as far away as Ohio and Pennsylvania. I asked why, and they said they couldn't wait 2 months for a Retrouvaille near home. I thought of you, and how hard it has been for you to wait. But now you are getting close. I hope that Retrouvaille will be as inspiring for you and your W as it was for us. Start warming up your writing hand, it will get a workout over the weekend.
