Some lines my wife has given me

- its cruelly ironic that now you are my perfect man and its too late
- I envy the next woman that gets you
- You will make a great husband for the next one
- Uses the reference “old me” and “new me” to differentiate the changed person
- I only want a platonic relationship
- Maybe we can be affectionate friends one day
- I still have to go no matter how much you have changed
- I should have left years ago
- I want to want to try at our marriage but dont
- No one will understand me or know or care about me as much as you
- You are a better man now that the one I married
- I can see all the good reasons for being with you but just don't want to be

I read the positive lines and always wonder why we are not together.

We had to AGREE to stop having sex and then weakened the following morning. She almost seems determined to end the R and is not able to back track.

I have my ideas why but can anyone in her shoes explain why she can say these positive things and still not want to try ?