When My W sent the email on Friday I just happened to be talking with Racefan via email..I sent him a copy of the email and told hie to DB it..this was his response back to me.
Okay devils advocate, W point of view you were being childish and doing it to upset W. She felt awkward getting 'questioned' (did she get questioned?) That's basically it from her view right? Yeah pretty much. Okay your point of view, W thinks that I was not a good father to son, so I am doing whatever I can to make sure and be the dad I haven't been in her eyes with D. Right? Close anyway. Okay here is my take: W is pissed cause you made a decision to be with your D and not her with that said, did you do wrong NO you didn't, you did right, you put your D first. In my mind 2 parents go no need for 2 parents 2 hear the same thing when 1 can fill in the other. IMO it just more of the same from W anger is confusing her perception. This shouldn't even be a topic of discussion. As you said the other night she would be pissed just for you breathing. I am not slamming your W don't take it that way, pre-bomb yrs ago she was (is) the woman of your dreams but the aliens have that one and left you this one. It is another baited sitch. I think the way you responded with your email was spot on. You didn't blame, you didn't throw insults, you were calm & cool. I look at W's email and you can just see the anger with her wording. What you did last night didn't warrant the email. Duck's back my friend that's all you can do at this point stay clear of the baiting you are doing it right.
The part in bold is key.
There's so much anger in her email..Brian even picked it up.
Sending an angry email because I missed a meeting because my little girl is moving from the infant class to the toddler class?? And all the kids and teachers she has previously been in the class with are moving up to. to the same class!!! What's the world coming to??
OMG--we may have to seek help for my D. I just don't see how she will adjust to this move..it will be so traumatic for her..
