Hey happycamper, its 10:00pm here, kids all in bed, goodnight.
I got the call today I was expecting:
W's mom called me, and said she knew what was going on, offered me money if I needed it, I declined, I could never take money from W's parents.
She said she knows it wasn't my fault, that I have been there for W and kids from day one.
I appologized to her, because right before Christmas I found out about OM and I wasn't the best host for christmas dinner when she was over at our house.
She said she had a great D L for me if I wanted the name and phone number, I told her I was going to let W have some time before I went to L to discuss D.
I told her that she was always welcome over at the house, that my door would always be open to her, she was crying, she said she knew I would not do anything to keep her from her grandchildren.
I thanked her for everything she has done for me and W and she said she loved me (several times) and I told her I loved her too. She said W cut off contact with her, that she doesn't know who her daughter is anymore, she said that her daughter had everything in the world going for her, good man, beautiful children, nice house and friends and family.
She doesn't understand her daughter, is so upset with her, again said if I ever needed anything she would be there for me.
I told her I was moving the kids up to my old room (its bigger for the 3 girls) on Saturday, she said she wanted to stop by and help. I told her she was more than welcome.
She told me again that she loved me and she would be their for me and the children.
I know W's mom is not happy with what W did and I'm pretty much certain that she know about OM because she said, that she told W that if she couldn't talk to her about what she was doing that if she was ashamed to the point she couldn't tell her mom, she was doing something wrong.
On a different note: took kids to the pool tonight, they had a band up there and we had a great time. God must be testing me, because, I met 2 girls up at the pool, very beautiful, talked several times. They were driving me crazy, one of them has a son in my D6 and D6 class and I know she is single and she had a girlfriend with her. God, why do you keep showing me girls when you know I cannot do anything.
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
