here Goes Part 2

[redsawks44]

Not sure why my post got locked? But no biggy

Part 1

New day New baby steps... squash today ah yes ... and W is coming to pub tonight.. i will look pretty good i must say so

[redsawks44]

I am curious how did the ones that got their spouse into C.. do it? my W wants no part of it.. the smallish signs last night tell me, maybe in the future..

[jon2911]

I am curious how did the ones that got their spouse into C.. do it?

They need to feel like working on the relationship. For most of us here, things are too far gone. And, they probably begged for C before and we ignored them (seems true in your sitch and mine).

So, to me DBing is trying to bring back the feelings of when we fell in love in the first place. And to do that, we have to be strong, mysterious, caring, all the things we weren't in the marriage.

My W is waffling on this right now. She even asked what C I'm seeing last night. But I still think she's a long way from wanting to work on this.

[redsawks44]

Thanks.. i think i am doing good so far... i have a longways to go..

last night was nice, just listening to W, and having her say "wow i havent even seen you in 2 days"

i told her i would likely be designated driver for my buddy tonight, she said O your going? maybe i shouldn't have told her..

[jon2911]

Not a big deal

[redsawks44]

Not a big deal

quick question, wedding ring on or off ? (or does it even matter?)

[redsawks44]

well i am off, W just called to tell me she is going where i am going..

[MichelleLT]

HAVE FUN!!!!!

[redsawks44]

i had a great time.. although i almost hit a deer on the way home

W didn't show up, it was too late by the time she finished work, and she was working this morning. W's cosuin said to me "i'm impresses you drank just water all night".. yep..anyways have a good day everyone I am off to build a dog run

[redsawks44]

i just cannot see us back together again.... i'd like that but i can't see it, am i blind?