Yep, that was us too, not too long ago either. (Probably will happen again too, but at least it's not happening right now).
You could read my lightbulb moment a few weeks (days??) ago.
It totally sucks when every single conversation is tiring, exhausting, misunderstood, & frustrating.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
