Hi Purple, back a year ago, when I had trouble talking face to face, I would e-mail H.

That enabled me to get all my feelings out, he could read the words over & over, & then he'd e-mail me back. It isn't how we wanted it to be forever, but it helped us transition til we were safer talking with each other.

You guys might try it. Texting is so quick usually, e-mail you think & re-read & make sure it says completely what you want.

Good luck.


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.