Sandi and SC, can you check my thread at newcomers and give me your perspective on me W cornering for a R talk today. It was refreshing for both of us tos say how we feel and what we want and which feelings she feels won't be able to change...intimacy towards me being #1...she also basically asked me for help with the D. Not exact words but that is the gist of it. I told W that I do not want a D but if it comes to that so it does.

I felt like I slid back for having the conversations but it seems that what is calling her away, need to be independent, do things for herself and the kids and figure out who she is, I can't do anything about except be patient and give her time and space. What scares me is my state doesn't require legal A before D and you cam get one in 90 days. I am afraid she'll get caught up in everything and then once she realizes things it will be to late.

Me 34
W 33
D 4
S 2
M 5
T 8
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