The client here is the MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP, not the individual.
Are you freakin KIDDING me???
Did that statement really just roll out of your head, through your fingers on get posted on this board, SG?
I can't wait to read the backpeddling you do on that one.
Let's see....off the top of my head...you just threw Jeanette, ACJ, Hopefloats, Nicola, cat03, Lissett, April, David...as well as a whole HOST of others who's marriages weren't saved (although they as INDIVIDUALS were) right up under the bus and told them all that the powers that be don't give a flip about them.
So what I hear you saying is as long as they were fighting to save their marriages - jacked up as they were in some cases - they were welcome to post freely on this board. But the minute they decided it was time to save themselves - their views are no longer important and are flat-out unwelcome to others who may be following similarly in their footsteps and NEED their insight.
Good job, SG.
I hope you're not a counselor in your day job.
Let me enlighten you on something you should know if the tale you spin here about your own life is true: What we learn here is useful whether or not we keep standing. Hell, in some cases it is priceless to other individuals and it doesn't make one bit of difference if we decided to hop off the rollercoaster that is DBing OR NOT. What if someone would have taken that stand about YOU, SG - that you didn't matter when you came along AFTER your divorce and TWO relationships later?? What if someone said that YOU as an individual didn't matter or didn't have anything to contribute???
I think it would kinda suck for you if the posters from now on take what you have to say with a grain of salt or straight up disrespect. Oh wait. I guess because you aren't here for help and advice now, but rather as an "overseer", you aren't in the same category as "us" so therefore our opinions won't matter to you.
How wonderful it must be to be you, SG.
Hey next time you're on a roll, lock that thread April started for me over Separated would you?
