Well W cornered me for a R talk. She even had a friend over to mind the kids. She wanted to know my feelings about the sitch which I complied to a degree. I wa actually very empathetic and managed to get her to talk about her feelings. The number one issue is that she believes she can't have intimate feelings regardless of everything else but is happy and knows that my changes would be permanent if I so choose. She's scared and afraid and feels that she can only be happy if she is independent of me to start a new career, life etc...I told her my vierwa what I thought and what I wanted. She enen brought up that she is just at fault as I am. She loves me and cares for me knows that we will forever be connected because of the kids but she has already emotionally left and needs to D. I said that is not what I want and that. My c had me on a variant of LRT told me to avoid R talk but to engage in small talk. Thing is I felt like I was cornered and had no choice. It was a good conversation for both of us emotionally and we both are in the same place afterwards. Now I feel that I need a 2X4 and to go dark to the best that I can being that she is still living at gume downstairs and we have 2 kids. Did I do much damage by having this talk? Please someone?
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