H says he never made it a priority b/c he thought I didn't want people over.
GRRRRRRRRRRR! This sounds so familiar - his UK twin comes out with things like that, although far, FAR less these days.
I dealt with it by saying (something along the lines of) "you make an assumption about me then go and act on that assumption. I've asked you many, many times not to do that. I don't know what else I can do but ask you not to make assumtions about me, please just ask". Then I shut up.
he still has an annoying habit of saying "I didn't know what you wanted to do tonight" instead of (the much more direct and my preference of) "what do you want to do tonight?". The first one makes him sound to me like some kind of victim.
But I keep thinking (said in Yoda voice) "they are young. But they will learn".
Keep your chin up lass
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
