Well yesterday hubby texted me about our taxes and I ended up calling him because I was driving and did not want to text in the car. I kept it upbeat and on topic. We figured things out and I am going to mail the last check in on Monday. So now that we have that figured out I guess there is no real reason to talk to him again. . .until he starts communication. So my "go dark" plan can be 100% now that all the money issues are out of the way.
He did not sound happy on the phone, not mad, more depressed I guess. I am trying not to read too much into it but he really sounded down. I kept chipper! Let him wallow in his misery for a little while. Maybe he will start to understand how I felt when he told me it was over and acted as if it meant nothing to him. Grr!
The other thing I wanted to note was that he was home on a Friday night. Alone. I find it ironic that one of my biggest "nag" issues was that he was going out with friends three to five times a week and yet since we decided to seperate he has not gone out at all. . .weird? Yes! The last week and a half I was living with him while I got things sorted out so I could move out he did not go out and although I do not know what he has been doing this past week since I have been gone I find it weird that he wasn't out last night. Even I went out last night! Oy!
Well that is my mini update. . .now I will just have to sit back and wait to see what happens. It would be nice to go on a date. I secretly wish he would ask if we could spend fourth of July together. It is kind of a tradition with us. Ever since we started dating we have always spent the fourth together and last year was the first one in 5 years that we did not spend together because he was away with the Army. I remember being so sad last year because I missed him so much. It's sad to think that we might not spend this one together when we talked about it so much on the phone when he was away last year. Oh well.
