Right now my fantasy is real in my head. No matter what everyone says, because it is too fresh, I think OM and I would have been happy in the most important way. The unhappiness that would come with OM would be more of the financial problems, security, loss of my son's time, .....ok, here we go...let me keep listing here what it is would go wrong........OM's temper and can be mean when angry (but of course right now I think we could work through that), living arrangements (he's ready to move in together and get married and I wouldn't be ready for that for a while)-would cause our next batch of arguments, his friends and how they may influence him negatively, I'm good for him but is he good for me?, his jealousy,......well, it's a start
I'm so happy for you about Retrouvaille. I've heard so many good things about it, and hopefully that will be as good for you!!! I do think even though you think that you would have been happy with OM you listed off half a dozen reasons why your R would have had problems, so that makes me think you are still kind of in that fantasy chemical-state as I guess you realize. If you reread your last post in a few days or week or something, maybe that will hit you more like it did me. Karen
