Mark, what you say is true....you all have some good ways to cut my fantasy apart and that is helpful. Either way, you are right. The fantasy has to stop.
What would be helpful is for YOU to cut the fantasy apart in writing on here. You need to start writing the truth instead of just nodding at us.
Seriously, that junk he was throwing at you is JUST PROMISES...I want to treat you like a queen etc..its just BS...
Pretend you had a 14 year old daughter and some 20 year old guy was handing her all this baloney...what would you tell your hypothetical daughter?
Should i guess? You would likley tell her he's telling her what she wants to hear so she will trust him, and that he is not demonstrating maturity at all in pursuing her in the first place.
Is that far off from the mark?
Think about this man as a sexual predator after an imaginary daughter you have and WRITE what you think of him on here.