Hope4us struggle, part 6

[Hope4us]

Thanks WDID. I hear what you're saying.

Was WW chatting with OM on the computer? Could be, but I strongly doubt it. OM is an alcoholic and it's a Friday night (any night for that matter) and there's no way he'd be sitting at his apartment talking to WW when he could be drinking hitting on the next victim.

At this point, I really don't think OM has any intention of being with WW, but he's ego is so large that I can see them trading emails/IM's at work. And if they are, WW is so fogged out that she thinks if/when OM comes back to our area they can pick up right where they left off. That's why the conversation today will be so telling. If it's truly over she should have no problem moving. She hates her job here. She only has one real friend and that's the enabler GF who is young enough to be her daughter. Her excuse to wanting to be here was S16 but that's not the case any longer.

There's only two real reasons she could want to stay. One, she's planning her future with OM in mind, or Two, she's afraid if we move back that we'll go back to our old marriage with the things that she discovered she didn't like when we moved. If it's the first, the S16 and I are outie and we can move on with our lives. If it's the second, the things she's complained about (us always being together) are so fixable they are no reason to NOT move.

So we'll see.