H...Is your W still actively in the affair? If she is, then I would strongly consider telling your D. She's an adult. She can handle it. Maybe wait until after Retro to see the results from that?
I do not think so. I DO know she has not physically been with him in a year. Have the daily phone calls stopped? I do not know I have not looked. BUT when the guy from Retro called. We both had to be on line and answer some questions he had and one was... “If there is a third person (OM) involved, all contact must be stopped. DO YOU UNDERSTAND? Both My wife and I answered yes
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know