Would really like WAW your opinion

[Neilh23]

everhope...the feelings you are experiencing are normal. I'm a LBH (the ladies here have helped me quite a bit). Read their threads. It helps to better grasp your W's point of view.

a good piece of advice....don't think about the OM. Don't look for the OM. It's not worth it. In this case, ignorance is bliss.

I feel your pain. I'm in the same boat, but have gotten a lot of great advice. Check out my thread if you want some of it!