Oh! Then he's straight. Then it's worse because he's got serious commitment issues. I mean I don't know him but it sounds like it if he won't let the women meet his kids.
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Who knows what he tells these women? They may not even know he has kids. The last time I was in the apartment of his, there were no pictures of the kids out anywhere, there was nothing of his previous life in there.
I think he tells them as little as possible. He does say he is separated on the dating sites. And mentions that he has two children in the list of things they ask you about. But he doesn't mention them at all in his essay about himself. Guess that would be a serious turn off.
So, in order for him to totally avoid any kind of serious analysis of his life, he just acts as if he is alone in the world, 95% of the time.
As for commitment issues, I guess those can develop later in life, because he sure did want to get married to me, and he stuck around for 25 years. He is a puzzlement.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50
