It's Saturday morning and no contact from H about meeting face to face tonight. I mustn't try to speculate, however, am preparing for a phone call that we won't meet and that he will not be going on either one of the trips.

It might be difficult, however, it will be a good chance to stop the tug of war and reaffirm what ever he says.

Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08