jonzy calm down, take a breathe bro anger isn't going to solve anything right now. At least you are venting on here. Who knows why she reacted that way not your problem. Think is there anything that you did or say that would prompt that response?
You're getting on the rollercoaster dude jump off before you hit full speed. Nothing you did could have been as BIG of a screw up as I did today. Fraid I might have put myself back to square 1 if not negative numbers. My lesson for the day no matter what PUT THEM FIRST!!! Go ready my post from today, then you can see how not to do it.
Bah darn edit!!! First sentence is supposed to say the weekend my W has S!!! So mad can not even type!!! Gosh I hate this Ted
Hi Ted,
When you're calm please rewrite it. It sounds like she asked if your son is with you and you said no he's with our daughter, and then she called you a dick. Is that what happened?
Hey Brian I read your post and you did what I think any father would have! I would want to be there for my daughter as well, but like you said you were in a no-win situation, not much you could have done!
Tink it was the W's weekend with the S, she knew I had plans but called because she could not get ahold of D. For some reason she got pissed and called me a dick! I said nothing as the convo lasted maybe a minute. All I said was I do not have him he is with D! I think she may be just a little bit crazy
OK well stupid me sends a text to wife to apologize. I am not sure what I was apologizing for but I did it anyways. Her reply was I did not upset her what are you talking about. I then told her I heard her call me a dick on the phone. Her reply to that was well whats new...lol not much
So I then respond well I guess dinner for tomorrow evening is out of the question. She texts back lol we will see but S will have to come. I said the more the merrier.
I know she is confused but I am totally perplexed!!! I guess we will see what tomorrow brings!!
Man totally bummed out today! I was so hoping that wife would have called for dinner, but instead I get a text to see if I will watch my S tomorrow AM because she has to go to work. Not sure if I should take him or not because tomorrow is my day I play paintball and she knows that. Any ideas?
Man totally bummed out today! I was so hoping that wife would have called for dinner, but instead I get a text to see if I will watch my S tomorrow AM because she has to go to work. Not sure if I should take him or not because tomorrow is my day I play paintball and she knows that. Any ideas?
Ted
jonzy...
If it is work she needs to get to and you are going to play paintball it's not a hard decision, why not take son with you, bet he would have a gas watchin. Dude I did the paintball thing years ago when it wasn't even a cool thing to do. I would even go so far as to say 'we' started it in Neb. LOL!!
You're doing okay slow and easy, don't walk around with your foot up your ARSE like me at the moment, ya hear me??
Ya I know but it seems like she just uses me to get her stuff done and I would bend over backwards for my son and she knows that. But I texted her back that I would keep him. Iwill take him with me to play paintball, but it is so darn hot here now that he wont last long. Hate playing sports in the desert.
Anyways I was being stupid and replied to my W first text about me watching S. I waited 2 hours before replying but I replied " awww I was hoping you said yes to dinner ;)". She replied "I was going to go but never heard from you". Bahhhh I did not want to call her and ask because I thought that would be a little to much pressure Oh well she said "maybe" for another time. Guess a maybe is better than her telling me to go to h311 or calling me a d1ck...lol.
I hear ya but if it is WORK then there isn't a choice if you have the time free. If it were to go out bar hoppin or hang with friends, then I would have said no also. JUst make sure he has sunscreen on maybe a hat or take an umbrella to keep him under and of course plenty of fluid.
Gee if you were back home here, you would swear it was Salt Lake never seen this much rain in June, as you know it's usually 90 + degrees with the same humidity it's really strange.
That will teach you to wait 2 hours to reply? If she texts and you aren't doing anything give it 10 or 15 minutes or something like that, 2 hours is a little extreme bro? There is a fine line between reading the sitch and assuming something else. Take it from me don't ASSUME it is the mother f'er of all evil! I have gone from talking to W everyday to I haven't heard from her since Friday at 4.
Yeah you don't want to be a doormat but you don't want to be a dork either. Ya hear me?
LOL dork is my middle name I guess It was not intentional that I did not reply for those 2 hours, I forgot my phone when I went to the store and when I got home forgot to check my phone.
I wish we could have about 1/4 of the rain you got back home! We are in the "monsoon" season and I haven't seen a drop of rain in my part of town yet.
Oh well she said "maybe" for another time. Guess a maybe is better than her telling me to go to h311 or calling me a d1ck...lol.