Keep in mind, the book does not tell you why the WAS is unhappy or why they ultimately did what they did, but it shows their thought process which really starts out unintentionally and how it progresses and how they justify what they are doing.
Yes, I realize I won't find the answer to WHY in the book, but I want to try to understand the thought process of the WAS better, to make peace with it. Thanks again for mentioning this book.
W and I have perhaps our final mediation meeting this coming Monday night. I am going to be applying for a mortgage tomorrow so I can buy out my W's share of the property. It is still so hard to accept the dissolution of our marriage, and hard to believe it is actually going to happen.
Be well,
LG
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08
