Oh no, if there was an OW I don't think I could do it. Thankfully we don't have that issue. It's weird. I love being close to him that way ,and of course I wish it meant more to him like it does me, but I'm not horribly depressed afterwards. It does give me something to cling to, and have hope with. Whether or not that is good, only time will tell.
I posted a question in the 180 forum a few weeks ago but never got a response. IF any of you wouldn't mind taking a look, it would be great. It goes along with this whole issue.
As I have been initiating mostly for the last 2 1/2 months (he has initiated a handful of times in the last couple of weeks), I was wondering if my 180 should be directed at what I've been doing recently (as in stop initiating now that he has moved out) or if the 180 should be in relation to what I did in our marriage (mostly NOT initiating, typical LD wife)??
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
