I wish you the best. I have hope that someday, but for now the law will take it's course and unless H gets a visit from God himself, we will be divorced by the day you hope to find your wife. Perhaps this is the way supposed to be...we go through all of this to find out what are M's are really all about. This is our wake up call. Again best wishes.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory