Got to believe you know best MP53 - and for sure -the sadness of it all would be horrible. I don't know if, knowing what I know now, if I would ever have a R with someone who was only separated. I had an EA alot of years ago, and one of the reasons it didn't become a PA was my family and the vows I believed in and the fact that I knew his wife and didn't want to hurt his family. I have said over and over, if.....big if... I would ever have a R with someone they would need to be a widower with no children. LOL! I couldn't stand working with someone with an ex and kids!!


Me-48 H-48
Married 25years
Sep 12/05
S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12
Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now
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