Getting Off the Rollercoaster!

[addie]

First of all, thank you for the birthday wishes. I greatly appreciate the support that you have all given me.

Recap:
This past week S and I moved 2500 miles away from H back to my hometown where I have family, friends and a job I will return to. Ever since this, H has been contacting me every day, eventhough I told him before leaving that we should have no contact for a period of time so that we could both sort through things. I on the otherhand have initiated no contact and have remained detached.
I am feeling quite tranquil and very ready to move forward with my life. I am no longer willing to accept the status quo. If H does not attempt to address his issues (previous infidelities, constant unhappiness and dissatisfaction with life), then I accept the fact that we may not be able to salvage our M. At this point, he has to prove to me that he is willing to make changes in himself - I am not willing to perpetuate the negative patterns of behaviour.
I will continue to work on myself, GAL, take care of S and move forward.