Yeah, it's kind of like having your secret plan as to how you are going to get this M back on track....but she doesn't know about it. That is the beauty of it.
I have seen couples read the same M manual or go to couples classes and they would throw things about what the book of class said back in their faces when they had a fight. It is better for the W to read different books....if she wants to. If she is a WAW, then more than likely, she isn't going to be interested in reading any M help books or go to any couples classes or MC. That means it is up to you. So keep coming here to post and seek advice...but most of all, read the DR book.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
