I understand. My H had no sisters and grew up thinking girls were really made of sugar and spice, so he was in for a rude awakening. Even after we had been married for a few years and I would try to tell him about females that was not what he thought they were and he was blind to their ways, he just couldn't believe it and didn't want to believe it. He really was too sweet and too good (if you know what I mean), but I think he at last begin to see the light later on. He tells people that I taught him how bad women could be......but I don't think they know how he means that (lol). Trying to use a little humor there, but guess it isn't very funny. I know you are hurting, sweetie, and trying to find the right path. I hope you will choose the DB way b/c I truly think it is the best....if you understand it.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!