At some point, with alot of help here and from my Pastor and friends I discovered that DBing is all about self respect. Marriage is a choice evet day, not an obligation or a prison sentence. When I stopped worrying about what she was going to do then I started living again. DBing should be called Divorce Thriving. When I really got the detachment thing down , I realized that I was gonna be ok no matter what happened.
We could still get back together. I never wanted the D. If we don't it is ok. I will be fine. In the mean time I can look in the mirror and say that I did all that I could to save the M.
