another date set today!

[jandn]

"You need to be a strong man, especially with the wife you have. Let me tell you something about women, sweety, we will walk all over any man that we don't respect or that will show any weakness. But there is a way to show strength. Also, there is a time to be like steel and a time to be like velvet. You just need to know when to be like steel and when to be like velvet for the woman you love. That's the tricky part, and when you find that out, you will know how to make that wife of yours fall in love with you all over again."

I know about this but yet I just dont believe it if you know what I mean. This is a problem for me sorting this out and knowing how to react to W. Its like a catch 22 IMO. You dont be nice, then the fighting gets tougher in the D. You be nice, you still get screwed in the D.

Thank you sandi for your advice and that should be the next book I start reading. Had some backsliding today but I will overcome them.