Need to get off the comp, will start one tomorrow in Piecing.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Hey addie!! Welcome back! I am jeallous of the new start. You must excited... Good luck with everything!
As far as your own Personal DAM? What can I say? To me it's a clear grass is greener stage. She plays her cards well, calling it quits etc. Best way to attact them in the web... I hope he realises soon enough how stupid he has been...
H has been contacting me every day since I moved. A couple of days ago on my birthday he sent me an email wishing me a Happy Birthday. In the afternoon there were flowers delivered to the house with a card signed: Love, H's name. I responded with a very short email thanking him for the birthday wishes and flowers. Later on that day H tried calling a couple of times but I missed his calls and didn't call back (one of the calls was at 2 am). He then sent another email telling me that he misses us, what a beautiful person I am, that he hasn't written me poetry in a very long time but that he should and signed off "Love, Name" (haven't heard this word in the longest time). I didn't reply to this email. Last night he finally got a hold of me on the phone after a couple of tries. I remained detached (which is very much what I am feeling right now) and didn't initiate any small talk. It's strange but I feel rather tranquil (at least for now) - I don't have the need to speak to him.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
Happy belated birthday, first of all, (((((((hugs))))))))!
And then - can I please borrow some of your incredible strength and tranquility?!
Please let us know when you get the Poetry :)!
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
I need some of your strength also!! You are doing great & I'm so happy your H is finally coming around. I think the time away from him will show him what he is really missing.
You keep staying strong, you are doing such a wonderful job!!
Happy Birthday. You sound so strong now. The move was the right decision. He is now pursuing you, wondering what you are doing. It would not hurt to be mysterious as well as detached. Make him wonder.
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