Your situation sounds really tough for you at the moment. I take my hat off to you, you are still having to deal with the deception.

Originally Posted By: JeffSTL
She is physically and mentally detached from me already and I don't think confronting her would accomplish anything.

My job is to be the better person, and take care of the kids.


My experience is when someone is mentally detached from us (let alone physically too) and we try to voice our disapproval about what is going on/has gone on, it is wasted as they don't seem to care anyway. You are right to put your energies into surviving this gracefully and being a great dad. You sound like you are doing a very good job in that area!

Getting angry with my H did nothing, I decided to get angry about him with other people, not with him. At the moment I am focusing on being a good co-parent with him.


Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09
Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3
Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08