WOW!! progress w H? Keeping my PMA

[pisces9]

thanks for all the funny faces! i just needed to feel heard..!
well my DB coach had said that it is too early to even suggest therapy... that happens in the building romance stage of reconciling. right now im in the building friendship phase and i hope my H will follow me out of the letting go of resentments phase...ive just gotten out of there myself...so i need to lead this one! also- therapy may not be where he would go- maybe a church marriage seminar, books, or??? i am open to anything- he is very private so we shall see...i now have learned form reading enough of these posts that when we lead they can follow and will if we have patience- so we worrying about him needing to change is sort of moot for now-i think his actions will tell m if he has changed WHEN he wants to discuss more R and pursue me a bit more.
My DB coach made me realize to not go too dark with my H bc that wasnt what was needed for him other wise he would feel like a schmuck for getting rejected sll the time by me and that would not help my sitch at all...


ANYWHO- i feel good for now and i need to keep up my PMA! maybe another will movie!

we're goin streakin'- meet me in the quad!
:-) :0) :^)