I really couldn't confront her with the kids there and I even if the kids were not there I don't think I would say anything.
She is physically and mentally detached from me already and I don't think confronting her would accomplish anything.
My job is to be the better person, and take care of the kids. I just have to get through the summer and I won't ever have to see her leave again. She will think everything is going just as she wants it. If she wants to take the kids I'll say ok, if she wants the weekend off away from the kids that will be ok too. She needs help with something, I'll do my best to help. Then when she thinks everything is going her way WHAMO, I serve her with D papers. I'm going to have to D her and move on with my life.
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
