My wife did that to me last year, on the 4th of July. After taking our boys to see the fireworks, she came home and started getting all dolled up to go to a party, where I KNEW she was going to meet OM.
I confronted her in her bathroom where she was putting on her makeup (I found out later, she even had changed her PANTIES), looked her dead in the eyes and said:
"I hope you're not going to meet Mike. That would be incredibly disrespectful to our family, especially when the boys were looking forward to shooting off fireworks with you."
She went crazy denying it, and SWORE to me she was just meeting some friends from work.
I had a voice-activated recorded in her car.
SHE LIED.
At least I confronted her. And I did it EVERY TIME she went out if I knew from intel where she was going.
