Unfaithful spouse's grief

[water2moon]

This is so true..my H "broke" it off with the OW approx 4 or 5 times..Each time he swore he was done but he was so miserable and I could tell he was putting on an act when he was trying too hard to seem happy, it was fake. It's still hard for me cause I often wonder if he still thinks about her and if he compares me to her..I pray for the day when this is a distant memory but I'm not sure when that will be, can take a while. I'm sure you'll get mixed opinions on this but I for one don't feel I need to console him in any way, not after the pain he put me through.