Like Puppy said, if she shows no or little interest, no use to pursue it. Once I let MIL know the truth, I was hoping for more action on her part. You know, be a mother and give good advice. Hoping she would be unsupportive of her actions. Especially the A. She has just kind of let if go. She told me recently, "You can't make her stay."

I know that, you stupe.

It sounds like your W does want to talk. Not sure what to tell you. I would be tempted. I think others would advise against any R talks at this point.

But to me, what do you have to lose? Like you, I don't think I'm the best advisor on here.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."