Mishka, You can try leaving something out that he might see, like a vibrator. Then, when he asks about it, act embarrased that he saw it, and say something like, "a girls got to do what she's got to do..." I GUARANTEE that will get his attention.
Oh wait, I see you have a s13, that could scar him for life to see that.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
