kat, I can see myself being dark with her if she wasn't at home anymore. If she moves out, then you bet, darkness comes. I plan on helping her move, get set up and then, dark.

But while at home....way different story. If it was a constant barrage of venom, then I would have to agree. Being dark would help give some perspective. Too hard when we still sleep together in the same bed.

To me, being dark is playing mind games. May work in some sitch's, but not all.

Maybe different levels of dark.

Like a different shade of pale. \:\)


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."