Sending SO many hugs and love your way. I am so happy for you, and for your H (hi, jimmy), and most importantly for your kids.
I have to admit that it was a bit bittersweet to read the wonderful turn-around, as my x went through with the divorce. It doesn't work out for everyone. But like Sally, I now that I will be ok, either way
btw, how much would SallysH charge to call WAHs and tell them that it could be worth reconsidering...?