So you're DBing do all the right things, dettached and no contact and all of that. Those are things to generate interest. However, what did you change in yourself?
See I'm a big fan of change. You have to take a good long hard look at yourself in bright lights, and yes, listen to the complaints of the spouse.
What were your failings in your marriage, we all have them. What did you change for the better, 180's.
Those changes, by the way have to be real they have to last, otherwise it is s a trick just to get them back. You hvae to want to make those changes in yourself to be a better man, father and husband.
BTW if you think your wife is in MLC, post there. Keep a thread here too, but post in MLC not many people jump threads, they usually stay where they feel comfortable.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
