You couldn't be me even if you wanted to...

[Sugar and Spice]

(((GFI))) I wish the same for you. I'm so looking forward to having a week off. I'm going to sleep, clean out my closets, kids closets, lay out by the pool, figure out my life. In others words, just have some me time and as little PT and the Troll time as possible. We are going to meet with my friend hopefully the week after next to get H's name off of the house and she wants me to file the D papers and then she can serve him when we meet. The problem I have with this is, she doesn't want me to tell him I'm doing it. This just feels wrong to me, it feels underhanded and I'm not real comfortable with it. I know its how he acts and thats on him, its not the way I choose to operate, if that makes any sense. Does anyone have an opinion on this? Should I just go ahead and file for D secretly, let her serve him and then spring it on him later or be up front, come to a good faith agreement and then file with everyone knowing the score? That is the ideal way for me, but she thinks I'm crazy...its like a game and I hate to play games.