Hmmmmmm....so hard to know what to do with her...everything is so different....she's going to leave OM, she wants to leave you, she's home cause she has too,......very hard to figure out.....I guess I would not pursue, but give attention. You wouldn't want the OM being the only one giving her the little texts and "I will always love you" messages. Let her know how much you love her ....but give her space.......don't push.....she's told you that. My two cents h4h.