I hope time will heal my wounds. Soon W will not be over at my house everyday and I'll only see her once maybe twice a week. I am still relatively new at this, 6 - 8 months and I am still relatively angry with W. I know I have to forgive her, but what she did is unthinkable, it's crazy I have to forgive her for something she did to me and the kids. I don't know how everyone here is able to do this (forgive).
Jeff,
Because our Lord commands us to -- no less. Simple.
Not EASY -- at all -- but simple.
Don't let unforgiveness consume you. I found that it helps to think of them as an addict, because they certainly are.